You have my best wishes, thoughts and prayers. 
  
Attitude is a very important aspect of fighting cancer.  Go into this knowing you are going to win.  
  
Give your cancer a name.  A funny little name that you cannot possibly be afraid of.  Mine was Calamari.  Long story, but it was fitting.  Perhaps calling it a BE 2 or Quirk might be fitting given this forum.  I can't think of any WW I plane that is less scary....unless you're it's pilot. 
  
Smile when you hear any noise during your treatments.  That is the sound of your "Calamari" screaming in agony as it dies a painful, torturous, much deserved death. 
  
Chemo is not for wimps.  If you go this route and the side effects are bad, remember that the "Calamari" is having an even worse time as it dies it's agonizing death. 
  
Best Wishes 
Stephen E Hood