Well. I got no help...But I solved my problem in both OFF and CFS3!
It took some research, a few hours of file tinkering, and some patience but I finally got it!
Was able to reverse, (maybe invert was the wrong terminology to use) my rudder pedals and get rid of the toe break/aileron effect in OFF, while also Finally getting CFS3 controls working correctly too!
I know that both of these games has some years behind them at this point but are still air worthy.
Between waiting for OFF to get it's act together with Phase-4, and "Cliffs of Dover" to either make it playable for the "common man" or I'm able to upgrade my rig yet again, and "Rise of Flight" to crank out more needed stuff, and not to mention IL2-1946, this should keep me entertained enough.
Sad to say though as I'm new to this forum and this being only my second post having to answer myself receiving no replies or help on the matter I'm kind of disappointed.
Over at the ROF forum you can get help almost immediately on just about anything. Granted, there is a lot of information here but you have to search diligently to find it.
My next hurdles with these two elder sim's are the multi-player and skins/mods available and how/where to play online.
I'd ask but it's like the old Phil Collins song... no reply at all...