You'll forgive me if a take this a little "personal", but I feel most people here are very helpful and will give help when known. I just jumped back through your posts and see you asked one question, about the darksea mod. In the same thread you answered your own question on what the issue was. Did you try asking the author of the mod for help at all, or let him know what you found out?
Now I personally have not tried installing it, but my first inclination would be to search the forums for anybody else that's had the same issue, then I would have emailed the author of the mod with the issues. But to basically come on here and more or less say these forums are crap seems a little harsh.
I apologize if I seem a little abrupt, but I've been packing for a move for two weeks and didn't get a lot of sleep last night, so I'm a little grumpy... :?