Here is my list.
"Mig Killlers of Yankee Station" by O'Conner gives a debrief of all of the Navy Mig Kills in Vietnam.
"Crusader, Last of the Gunfighters' by Adm Gillcrist is a good book about flying the F-8 in and out of combat.
"Night Fighters over Korea" by O'Rourke is a good story with many technical parts on flying the F3D.
Lastly, the best debrief book with tactics about Vietnam is "Clashes" by Michel. This book is written like a TOPGUN debrief. The who is taken out of it, though if you know your history, you know who the players are in some of the engagements. (Olds, Cunningham, Ritchie)
Here are some good links.
"The Ault Report" http://www.history.navy.mil/branches/org4-25.htm
This report led to better air to air missiles and more importantly, better training through the formation of TOPGUN.
"Aces and Aerial Victories" http://www.afhso.af.mil/shared/media/document/AFD-100921-010.pdf
Official Air Force debrief of every USAF MiG Kill in Vietnam.
USAF Downloadable books at http://www.afhso.af.mil/booksandpublications/titleindex.asp