I feel much the same as you do, mighty.
But I have also read much against him and his behaviour, in private messages I exchanged with some friends here.
Like you, I think we are adults enoughs to realise how someone like him has his "special patterns".
He was often rude, and sometimes even unfair (by acting against his own rules towards newbies for example),
but this way I seemed to know him better than I may know some people, who hide behind a mask of politeness.
If there was a voting, I would vote for him to be allowed to come back.
But there are rules here, which are not made by you and me - forum rules, which must be accepted.
He had more than one warning.
He was even allowed to remain here, when he was about to get banned the first time.
He knew he should have cared a bit better about his words.
After all written words - not spoken ones in quick temper.
For some, there will be no warning signs that work - they will still walk across the closed, unsafe bridge.
He was a Lemming in that way.
I know how much the forum meant for him - and I feel sad for him, that he can't be here anymore.