Sorry if I came across as tactless or without taste. I was merely expressing my opinion.
As for family affected the Japanese, my Australian grandfather fought them too. He was in the Australian Army.
My family has a long and proud military history, including my English grandfather who flew against the Germans in the RAF, my father who fought with the Australian Army in Vietnam, who still carries the physical and psychological scars of that war, my sister who served in Iraq for two tours, and I myself served in the Fleet Air Arm of the Royal Navy. I hear disrespectful and tactless things said about our honoured fallen, and read terribly disrespectful things written about our honoured fallen, every day, and like you it makes my blood boil.
In writing on this post, I was merely casting an opinion on an event, which if true will mean final closure for a family left incomplete, or if fake, is nothing short of a desecration of the memory of all of the fallen. I meant no offence in anything I have written, and so apologise if I have.